Anonymous asked: I love wearing skirts and dresses and girly things. But I also love wearing the more masculine clothing. Does that make me a freak? Should I choose one? My girlfriend typically likes me more girly because I have a ten inch difference between my waist and hips and she loves that. What do I do?
Freakishly awesome, maybe. Queerfabulous, unique, HUMAN, definitely. Some people with the desire to wear feminine and masculine things identify as gender fluid. But that’s up to you. Just understand that this is completely normal, lots of people feel the way you do, and there is no right way to identify or present.
You might want to communicate to your girlfriend that you love how much she loves your curvy hips, but you also want to feel confident when you’re dressing masculine that she’ll be just as attracted to you then too. Some people also love their feminine curves in the sheets even if they want to hide them when they’re dressed. So keep in mind that it’s completely normal for whatever you’re feeling when you’re having sexy times with your boo to vary from your feelings when you’re walking around in the world.
Several months ago, a cute queer named Emma modeled some femmewear and menswear outfits for us. I immediately thought of her to show how one person can wear so many different things and look amazing in all of them.