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25

Apr

Hat: Obey
Hoodie: Vans, from Karmaloop
Shorts: American Eagle Mens
Belt: Volcom
Shoes: Vans, from Karmaloop
Sunglasses: Ray-ban Wayfarer

itttttsss Ashley! Here’s her Tumblr!

Type in ashleyyielding at Karmaloop to get 20% off!

And then submit all the things. You might just end up on some cute queer’s dash.

18

Feb

Lesbro Lessons: How to Wear Snapbacks Without Looking Like a Tool

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(from this post)

Anonymous asked: What do you think about snapbacks? Tips on wearing them without looking douchey?

A.D. says: Wearing a snap-back requires a few things, including swagger and a slight smirk. Both can lead to douchey-ness, BUT you can totally rock a snapback without looking like an asshole. You just gotta strike the right balance. Snapbacks, for starters, should be paired with something other than shorts and a tank top. I think snapbacks go with most outfits, even a blazer and tie (but, like, outside the office, obvi). In a snapback, avoid the ‘I’m so cool’ face, in which you never smile, have your earphones in, and look miserable. You will look like an asshole; instead, SMILE. 

That’s it.

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27

Nov

Skinny Skater Style Jeans For Small Waists

Anonymous asked: Okay I’m a 5’ 3” 110 pound lesbian and I wear a 24 in girls pants, I’m tired of wearing womens jeans all the time, but that’s all that looks good on me. Mens pants never fit me because I’m too small but boys pants are either too baggy or too short. Do you have any suggestions? I’m looking for a nice skinny fit but still a little baggy with skater style

Courtney says: Pacsun and American Eagle both go down to 26 in the waist for their men’s pants; and while a 26 is not a 24, this might leave the right amount of room for sagging in the aforementioned skater style. I personally have found that my 28x30 American Eagle slims fit me the same in the waist as my 30x30 Dillon Skinnies from Pacsun, so Pacsun’s sizing may even go down smaller than they are labelled. Levi’s also get very skinny but their men’s pants only go down to 27 in the waist. However, Levi’s also has lots of variety in their pant styles for boys, which may be able to solve this dilemma for you. (Sonia adds: Ashley also recommends Levi’s boys — she is wearing them in this post. With a 29/30 waist, she says they are a little small on her. So they might be perfect for you.)

androgynous jeans
Skinny Jeans in Berry, currently on sale for $44.99 at American Eagle

androgynous jeans
Drakes Skinniest Layered Blue Jeans, $49.50 at Pacsun (2 for $69)

Levi’s currently has a sale on their website for 25% off and free shipping! GO BUY SOME JEANS, FRIENDS!

androgynous jeans
Levi’s Boys 510 Super Skinnies, on sale for $34

20

Nov

Ashley + Tie Achieved

As requested!

hot lesbian in tie

hot lesbian in tie

hot lesbian in tie

Sunglasses: Ray-ban Wayfarers
Cardigan: Tommy Hilfiger
Shirt: American Eagle
Tie: Express
Jeans: American Eagle
Shoes: Converse

23

Oct

Ashley Goes J.Crew

Ashley is seriously stepping it up with J.Crew fixings and brogues. She’s keeping some of her old urban appeal with the Hershel backpack, and the color coordination is still a key part of her look. But Ashley is growing up… and giving us more work clothes gayspiration. I’m ready to see this queer in a tie. Like if you agree.

Shirt: J.Crew men’s
Sweater: J.Crew men’s
Pants: American Eagle Skinny Trousers, women’s
Shoes: Clarks
Backpack: Herschel

See more of Ashley’s dapper outfits: Ashley’s Easter OutfitAshley’s Evolving Style

18

Oct

Musician Grunge

It’s still hot where Ashley lives, but she threw on a Beanie to start bringing the fall style. I’d categorize this look as musician grunge, with a touch of prep. She just needs a beat up guitar in her hand and she’ll be golden.

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Sunglasses: Ray-ban Wayfarer
Beanie: RVCA Cuff Beanie from PacSun
Necklace: American Eagle, men’s
V-neck: Hurley from PacSun, men’s
Shorts: Cut off jeans from Hollister, men’s
Shoes: Converse

06

Sep

Ashley and Hootie Instagramming It

It’s on late summer days like these when a good hair style goes a long way.

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Ashley:
Sunglasses: Ray-Ban Wayfarers
Shirt: Diamond Supply Red OG Yacht Tee Shirt
Hootie:
Sunglasses: Thrifted
Shirt: Urban Outfitters*

*Urban Outfitters donates money to anti-gay campaigns. Learn more about their actions hereBuffalo Exchange and Ragstock are great hipster alternatives

19

Jul

The Tank Post

We’ve been getting so many questions about men’s Tanks; where to get them; how to deal with large armholes; what to do if people are making fun of you for being a virgin (wait… that’s not about fashion. Why is it in my inbox?)



Ashley rocking the tank undershirt (link)


Yes, men don’t mind exposing their boobs, so most of their tanks have larger armholes. The solution: Hanes or Fruit of the Loom undershirts. Available on Amazon. Boy’s tanks however, tend not to have large armholes… I don’t know why. So I like to wear them.

Here are some of my favorite tanks to help get you beat the heat:

AMBSN Clothing Popsicle Tank Top, available at Trucker Deluxe for $39.99



Company 81 Men’s Stripe Tank Top, available at Amazon for $24


Topman has a ton of tanks tops for all the small queers. Their smallest size XXS is even too small for me. Yellow Winner Vest, available at Topman for $32.


Tank with Wide Fluro Stripe, available at ASOS for $19.88.  (Free shipping both ways in the US + 10% off. Code: 10SALE)

Fly Society Stewardess Tank, available at PacSun for $24. (10% off $100 plus free shipping. Coupon code: PACSUN10)

Fine Jersey Unisex Tank Top, available at American Apparel for $17

Obey Font Heather Yellow Tank Top, available at Zumiez for $29.95

Other men’s and boy’s tank top brands I love that will have them in stores but not online are H&M, Old NavyAmerican Eagle, and Epic Threads (Macy’s Boys.)

Oh, and tell your friends that “virgin” is a heterosexist concept and it’s your body and you do what you want.

16

Jun

Anonymous asked: Hey, do you know what Ashley uses/wears as a binder or bra? Her tanktop-looks always seem to cover them really well. I'm about her build and hoping to create a similar look, and I was wondering if you (or she) had any suggestions. Thanks!

I love her tank top look too. Ashley is pretty lucky in that department, so she doesn’t have to bind. Pretty sure she just wears sports bras. She also wears white tanks (like Fruit Of The Loom) under her tank tops. That can also help flatten you out more.

Related Posts: Swag.Ashley’s Primary Colors

03

Jun

Ashley + Puppy = Hard Core Love

It’s take your lesbian for a walk day.

*Urban Outfitters donates money to anti-gay campaigns. Learn more about their actions hereBuffalo Exchange and Ragstock are great hipster alternatives.

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