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21

Mar

(Affordable!) Masculine Shoes For Small Feet

Lots of smaller footed folks have asked for masculine shoe recommendations in the non-sneaker shoes arena that won’t break the bank. I’ve picked up a few more ideas since my last post in May

My biggest recommendation is to do the thrifty thrift! Men’s feet used to be smaller, so there are some gorgeous vintage finds out there for next to nothing. Blake got these bad boys for $4Bobby from Boston had an incredible selection of smaller men’s shoes that ranged from 30 - 60$. If you make visiting your neighborhood thrift store a regular activity, something fantastic will pop up.

Onward! I chose pretty spring colors, because I can:

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Bass Women’s Ely Shoes 

I’ve had these Bass bucks from Bass for 2 years now, and they are still one of my favorites and one of my most vesatile pairs of shoes. They fill an in-between space from casual to fancy. They come in several colors and contrast soles. Retail is $69, but you can usually snag them on sale or on Ebay for $40 or so. (See me wearing mine here!)

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Loafers are never a bad addition to your wardrobe. Equally at home at the office or with some shorts on a summer stroll. Women’s Hayden Loafer, $85 at Sperry Top-sider.

imageEvery fashionisto needs at least one pair of fashion boots! Clarks Women’s Desert Boots, $94.95 at Infinity Shoes

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I always dislike how boy’s shoes have a rounder toe and chunkier heels than men’s. As if they still need help walking past toddler-hood. However, J.Crew has some of the less obnoxiously shaped boys’ shoes in the most fabulous of colors! These are the Kids’ Suede Bucks with Contrast Sole, $98. They’ve also got pretty nice wingtips for $118, though I’m less convinced of the chunky design in the dressier shoe.

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These are so pretty! Can’t speak to their quality. But… WANT! Halogen® ’Lindy’ Oxford, $99.95 at Nordstrom

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Cole Haan has some fabulous choices this season. I tried a pair of their Skylar Oxfords and found them very comfortable! They would make for a great dress shoe. The leather sole feels like it would last for ever. The black ones are currently on sale for $179.95. They also have the Alissa Oxford (pictured above) — the same thing with a rubber sole a different kind of leather (nubuck) in brighter colors. Those are now running as low as $88 on Amazon.

In other news I crossed these Steve Madden oxfords off the list when I tried them on IRL. They feel like a flimsy piece of felt glued together by a child. There’s women’s clothing for ya. 

Am I missing anything? Add it in the comments!

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09

Jan

Bass Loafers, Polo Ralph Lauren + Adorable Queer

lesbian plaid fashion

lesbian casual styles

Plaid shirt: Polo, bought at Macy’s
Jeans: American Eagle
Gray Sweater: Merona/Target, Thrifted
Loafers: Bass, Thrfited

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03

Nov

Preppy 70’s Rockstar

Patrice took some classic J.Crew pieces and turned them preppy 70’s rockstar. Queer Zeppelin, anyone?

Preppy 70's Rockstar Led Zeppelin

Sunglasses: Oliver Peoples
Scarf: Vintage 
Shoes: Bass Washington Moccasin
Everything else: J.Crew!

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More Patrice on Qwear: Steampunk Outfit

31

Oct

Blake’s Dapper School Queer Look

I really love it when people put green and blue together. It’s so unexpected and a pretty combo. Also love her glasses. I highly recommend this outfit to anyone too tired to show up to class on monday morning. Picks ya right up.

plus sized queer woman in tie

plus sized queer woman in tie

Jacket: Old Navy
Shirt: W.H. Belk
Tie: tag-less, found at Goodwill
Belt: Levi’s
Jeans: Old Navy
Shoes: (not pictured) Bass Weejuns

Blake is boss!: queerplusfashion.tumblr.com

14

Oct

Anonymous asked: Hey, I love your blog!! I have just started to shop online and I've checked out ASOS but I don't really have a very big budget at the moment. Are there other sites you would recommend that aren't too overly priced? I generally feel more comfortable in masculine/ androgynous clothing :)

There are successful ways of shopping on a budget online, and there are ways that will end up costing you more money. Sites with cheap full retail prices have items that fall apart really easily and end up costing you more as you replace things. I’m generally not the biggest fan of Forever 21 for that reason, but I know some people have a lot of good luck with them too. I really like ASOS because of all their sales, and they have free shipping both ways so that you can try things on and then return them. Gap is one of my favorite places for affordable clothes. They are also very well made for the price, and when things go on sale it can be quite the steal. Old Navy’s clothes are cheaper and not as good quality, but are still worth it. Their shorts have lasted me a couple summers. I love Bass shoes for the quality and price and often order them on Ebay. They have many women’s oxfords that are androgynous or menswear inspired.

06

Oct

A.D’s Formal Stylings

Lots of folks have been wanting to know what to wear to gay proms, semi formals, birthday parties, weddings… Some of the questions that come up are:

What do I wear that’s in-between a suit and a dress?
How do I dress masculine without completely losing the feminine parts of myself?
Can I wear a shirt and tie with no jacket?

I realized that A.D. has the solution for us. I can’t believe I went to school with this hottie for a whole year:

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Shirt: Brooks brothers 346 shirt
Tie: J. Crew 
Vest: Thrifted
Belt: Levi’s
Pants: Levi’s
Shoes: Bass oxfords

You can mix up the ties, bow ties, vests, and jackets combo. Any combination works great. And the colors, textures, and fit of the clothes you choose will also effect how feminine or masculine you feel. I have another friend who wears this exact same outfit but in a more femme way, with clothes cut to show her figure. 

More queerspiration at A.D.’s blog: exsouthernbelle.tumblr.com

15

Sep

Dapper Baseball Boi

I’m starting to evolve my style past dapper prep to dapper preppy boy who likes baseball. As evidenced by a Club Monaco wool hat, socks with shorts, and primary american-esque colors. obvi. 

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Cap: Club Monaco Tyson Wool Baseball Cap (mens)
Polo: Tommy Hilfiger Boys
Sweater: H&M (mens)
Shorts: Gant Rugger
Socks: Urban Outfitters* BEFORE I KNEW IT WAS BAD!
Shoes: Bass ”Ely Gobi Suede”

*Urban Outfitters donates money to anti-gay campaigns. Learn more about their actions hereBuffalo Exchange and Ragstock are great hipster alternatives

09

Sep

British Schoolgirl Fashion

Lately I’ve been really inspired by the British schoolgirl look. It’s such a great style and so fun to reclaim as a queer. Here are some items I love that can help incorporate the style into your wardrobe.

Love Moschino Hat, available at Yoox for £50.00

Vintage Set My Heart A-Blazer, available at Modcloth for $29.99

Cambridge Cable Crewneck Sweater, available at J. Crew for $88

Velvet Bow Neck Tie, available at ASOS for $13.80

Upwardly Mobile Satchel in Yellow, available at Modcloth for $134

Seen in Style Top in Ivory, available at Modcloth for $39.99

Vince High Waisted Shorts, on sale at FarFetch for $114

Urban Knit Knee High Socks, available at Topshop for $26

Bass Women’s Ely Oxford, available at Amazon for $54.95

31

Aug

Yellow, Orange, and Me

Being a prepster and breaking fashion rules are my two favorite things. 

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Polo: Tommy Hilfiger Boys
Sweater Vest: Old Navy “Boys Argyle V-Neck Sweater Vest” 
Bracelet: Morellato
Belt: Abercrombie & Fitch Preppy Braided Belt
Shorts: Old Navy Women’s Perfect Khaki Bermudas
Socks: American Apparel
Shoes: Bass ”Ely Gobi Suede”

Related posts: Ask Men’s Sock Rules: Are They Right?

22

Jun

Anonymous asked: Any recommendations for affordable oxfords/brogues in small sizes (I wear a size 6 in women's or 4 in kids) but that are slightly feminine? (I'm more of a feminine tomboy that androgynous)

Try just putting something like “Women’s Oxfords 6” in Ebay. I found these awesome saddle shoes for $30.99 + shipping. Bass makes lots of these styles for the small footed types, and I’ve often drooled over their options on their site and then got them for around $40 on Ebay.  Modcloth always has cool menswear inspired lace-ups done femmy. Right now they have one called the Optical Illusionist shoe for $49 that’s pretty cute. Topshop also has these Maddie Nude Eva Sole Brogues for $64.

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