Anonymous asked: No questions here! Just wanted to say that I love love love Qwear! Also, Cotton On's men's clothes are great! And affordable! Oh! and SKINNYFATTIES is like THE coolest business ever! They tailor your lame-o wide neck ties into pretty, little, skinny ones. Mhmm. Yeah. Freakin' amazeballz! You're amazeballz, too! This blog is amazeballz!

NO YOU ARE!!! Thanks, anonboo. Here’s Cotton On. SKINNYFATTIES looks AWESOME. - Sonia

I did a thing today! I went to a gay friendly wedding expo in Portland, ME representing Fourteen. I got to see our clothes for the first time, try them on, walk in a wedding fashion show, and talk to hotties. My only regret was the Holiday Inn Breakfast Buffet. OMG DON’T DO IT. 

Sorry I don’t have pictures of the fashion show. I was busy waiting back stage in a closet full of the well-dressed queers. 

Setting up our booth!

Surprise surprise! LK Weiss of Jack Tarr helped to put together the fashion show! So naturally within 5 minutes of meeting them we were in a photobooth together.

I totally have this on my fridge now.

This is serious stuff, you guys! Pay. Attention.

One mannequin I dug by our friends Joseph’s of Portland, ME

I’M GAY But ok seriously, I’m wearing Fourteen’s Silk Vest with Charmeuse Lapel and the Silk Duchess Satin Tie in Navy if you wanna go order them or anything.

Oh hay, wanna hang out tomorrow? Live in Boston? GREAT come to my shopping event at Indochino. There may be other special guests joining us as well. You’ll just have to come and find out for yourselves. 

OK LOVE YAS BYE!

Sonia Fragiscle

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I was blown away by Indochino’s beautiful Traveling Tailor shop in Boston that I visited with Fit For a Femme last week. It was like the Apple store of suits. Priced in the $400 range, they offer the softest fabrics and choices of lapel style, number of buttons, pocket style (note: pocket flaps can always be tucked in. May as well get them and have the option!), linings, rounded vests, and contrast button stitching, to name a few!

Here are some photos from their shop, all courtesy of Fit For a Femme! The femme’s wife M got fitted for a suit as well, so stay tuned for part 2 of the Indochino experience on FFAF’s blog. 

The traveling tailor is in Boston until April 15th as part of their North America tour. Since I love Indochino and I want to make sure you all feel comfortable going to them, I gave them a heads up that some of you might visit one of their traveling tailor stores. All you have to do is tell them you are from Qwear, and they will ask you for your pronouns and preferred language for the fitting. They are are super excited to have you there. Don’t live in Boston? They might visit your city soon. Follow them on Facebook and Twitter for updates.

If you are able to make it, let us know how it goes! 

- Sonia

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Anonymous asked: hi sonia, do you have any suggestions for college/house party attire?

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Hi Anon, what kind of college/house party? Are we talking the rager I went to sophomore year that took until Wednesday to recover from, or the jello shot contest I won Junior year that took someone’s eye out? Since I’m the expert, I’ll just cover all of them.

At college parties, you want to wear things that you can get things spilled on. You don’t want to have to worry about your $700 red strappy-thing shoes while you’re out dancing and flirting. So that’s requirement number 1. 

Requirement number 1 part 2 is that you want to wear things that you wouldn’t be devastated if you lost. You’ll probably throw something in a pile of other people’s shit while you’re dancing and sweaty and drunk, and might not be able to find it when you leave. If you are bringing layers, make sure everything you might take off is not of special value to you. On that note, wear cute underwear.

Optional: lezbereal - you’re going to these parties to get laid and/or make friends. So you want to wear something distinctive and fabulous that will help people come up to you and start conversations. It might be a tie with dogs on it, a hat, a sequen dress, a “Butch, Please!” shirt. My friend Abby sometimes goes to parties in a blue wig, as “Maddax.” AND SHE’S NOT EVEN QUEER, YOU GUISE.

I think any one of these would make fantastic college party outfits, but please post more in the comments, queers! Photo reply: activated. - Sonia

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I really just wanted an excuse to post this… adorable. (from: a-decade-undertheinfluence.tumblr.com)

And while we’re at it, here’s another HQ looking away in the distance. Also known as Shereen Jenkins. (from dapperq.com/tag/shereen-jenkins)

CTs on their phone. It’s endless! (from: siffybby.tumblr.com)

It’s not a sin if you’re amazing. (from: tomboy-x.tumblr.com)

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With spring around the corner, I know what’s on everyone’s mind: Masculine Floral. Femmy femme floral. Overpowering Patterns. Take it from me… there is no such thing as being too faggy. My top retail places to pick up some floral this season are Topman, Topshop, H&M,  Forever 21, Modcloth  ASOS, J.Crew; and for ties, General Knot & Co, hands down. But my first plan is to scrounge the thrift stores to find men’s floral shirts and then get them tailored to fit. 

(from: lyst.com) Pants from H&M

Grey Floral Pattern Socks, $6.00 at Topman

(from dapperq.com) Shirt from ASOS

Walk on Flair Flat in Orange Blossom, $37.99 at Modcloth

UPDATE: This shirt costs ~ $262.96 + shipping and can be purchased by emailing klas@roseborn.com (from roseborn.com)

(from: lookbook.nu) Tie from General Knot & Co

Floral Print Pants, $22.80 at Forever 21

Floral Bow Tie, $55 at J.Crew

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Dolphinlegs asked: So I’ll soon be transitioning from a student to a professional, and I looked around and was like “hmm, I own no professional clothes at all.” And I really have no idea where to start. I was wondering what tips you have on dressing for a professional job interview/ dressing professionally in general. I’m not really the type of lady who would feel comfortable wearing a suit and tie, but would prefer something a little less masculine. Perhaps something on the more “soft butch” side?

To me, the difference between dressing “soft butch” and full-on masculine is the way the cut of the clothes fits your body. The actual pieces; slacks, button-ups, ties, blazers, pocket squares etc, are all the same. But I’d look for professional menswear inspired clothes that fit your gender presentation. You’ll probably have the most luck in the women’s section. There are tons of more feminine suit and tie combos out there that are cut to show off curves, and then everything in between.

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Here are my tips for establishing your new wardrobe as an aspiring soft butch professional. You might tailor this further depending on your field and location. If once you start working there you see people being more casual, follow their lead and take it down a notch. But as far as first impressions go:

1. For pants and blazers, choose conservative colors such as grey, black, navy, army green, and khaki. For shirts and sweaters go for white, burgundy, blues, grays, light pinks, and greens. Ties and pocket squares can add pops of color, but nothing too bright or crazy.
2. Blazers and sport coats! Maybe even with elbow patches. Check out H&M, Topshop, J.Crew, Marimacho.
3. Khakis/ dress pants: Go to town. Once you find a cut that you like, don’t be afraid to buy it in multiple colors! I love the fit of the Gap’s pants. Zara’s are also sweet. Don’t roll the cuffs.
4. Unless you’re interviewing at the most prestigious legal firm, rock separate pieces rather than full-on suits. It’s cheaper, and easier to combine things that fit well. See Blake’s piece on suit separates.
5. For footwear: derbies, brogues, oxfords, fancier saddle shoes, wingtips, and loafers are all great choices. No sneakers, boat shoes, or sandals. 
6. You’ll need at least one black belt and one brown belt. Avoid big, decorative buckles with angel wings and skulls etc. on them. Match your belt with your shoes.
7. Sweaters and cardigans are great, but go for higher-end sweaters that fit well and don’t look frumpy. Check out the ones at Everlane, Banana Republic, J. Crew. 
8. Make sure your shirt fits well; getting it tailored if necessary. Depending on the level of formality, you might need to only wear long-sleeve shirts. If it’s less formal: In the summer, short sleeve button-ups are a good choice! (Ta-da) Stay away from polos, shirts with western detailing, and flannel. Always keep your shirt tucked in.
9. Don’t shy away from neck ties and bow ties! They can break up an outfit and add another element or color or texture. But keep it snug with the top button buttoned; not loosened.
10. Carry a briefcase, portfolio, or professional backpack.
11. Iron! It makes a huge difference!

Did I leave something out? Add it to the comments!

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Ox-1 Portrait Briefcase with detachable backpack straps, formink.com for $59.00

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Congratulations! With the right outfit, you are halfway to being a Power Queer.

- Sonia

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Blazer: Bought in France 
Shirt: Surplus, bought at T.J. Maxx
Tie: Urban Outfitters*

*Urban Outfitters donates money to anti-gay campaigns. Learn more about their actions here. Buffalo Exchange and Ragstock are great hipster alternatives

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