Anonymous asked: I love wearing boxer-briefs and would really like to be able to sag my jeans slightly to show off the waistband, like i've seen loads of girls do. My only problem is i have really big hips and if i wear my jeans below them i look really wide :( I normally wear skinny or tapered fit jeans and wondered if you have any suggestions on how to achieve this look?
A.D. says: I feel you on this. Unfortunately, people with vaginas sometimes have hips and waists, and sometimes hips can look wide in comparison to the aforementioned waist.
Here’s the deal: your body is your body. Hips and all. (And hips and waists and bodies are so wonderful and beautiful; I personally love it when people sag and I get to see their beautiful curves.)
Wanting to minimize hips/waist/female+feminine body markers is pretty common for those of us with gender dysphoria (or masculine-leaning ways or whatever). What I personally do is pull my boxers up, so they hit at my waist, and then sag my pants, so they still hit above the widest part of hips, so my hips are still minimized. Also, if you have an ass, sagging the front more than the back also helps with creating a more rectangular (than apple-y) body.
As for the fit, I think you should pull up the boxers and the pants, and see if that works. Because penis-wielding bodies often have fewer curves, they sag at their ass. Unfortunately, vagina-holding bodies have asses that cannot besaggedon sometimes. If pulling up the pants/boxers does not work, perhaps trying a larger pant size.
Other than that, perhaps consider yoursagging/perceived wide hips issue as insanely attractive to pleeeeeeeenty of lesbos/homos/queerz.