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02

Nov

Cute and Colorful Sports Bras

Anonymous asked: I love my boobs, and they’re only a 36B, but I feel like in menswear they look HUGE! I’ve never had that problem before! I was thinking of switching to sports bras, but they tend not to be cute, and I like my bras to at least be pink or something (no frills, just pink haha). Maybe I’ll just get white sports bras and color on them?

I agree that cute sports bras are a good way to go if you want to not feel like you’re popping out of your menswear. A while ago we got some answers from readers about where they find cute sportsbras. Here’s what they said:

Forever 21
Forever 21 sports bra
Ribbed Metallic Sports Bra, available at Forever 21 for $10.80

forever 21 makes a wondefully comfy yet sporty yet dykey yet chill bra for $3.80 that comes in many many colors.  i hate that store, but love that bra!” - Queerlady

Target
Target sports bra
C9 by Champion® Womens Racer Back Cotton Bra, available at Target for $9.08
“Um: Target. Has uber-neon and occasionally oddly-pattered sports bras that are also (relatively cheap).” - Becky

“seriously.. the sports bras from target are really affordable.. and i’ve got one on now.. neon green makes me happy. ;)” - Candace

Champion
Champion sports bra
Champion Women’s Shape T-Back Sports Bra, available at Champion for $31.99

“The “Champion Women’s Shape T-Back Sports Bra” is good and comes in some nice colors - different shades of blue, purple, yellow, green, grey, pink, black and white. ” - Lezsquire

Jockey
Jockey sports bra
Medium Impact Wicking Seamless Bra, available at Jockey for $19.99

“Jockey has some reasonably priced and simple sports bras in like 20 colors.” - Masha


Aerie
Aerie sports bra

Aerie Fit Cross-Back Bra, available at Aerie for $29.95

Aerie has lots and lots of plainly shaped basic bras in really fun colors - heathered tomboy shades, some funky oranges and other bright Spring colors, etc.” - Fit for a Femme

Nike
Nike sports bra
Nike Elastica Sports Bra, available at Nike for $35. Recommended by Candace

LuLu Lemon
LuLu Lemon sports bra
Free To Be Bra, available at LuLu Lemon for $42. Recommended by Vas-y-mollo

Autostraddle also did a sports bra roundup  a while back, and some of their choices have fun colors: Bra-Buying Tips for Masculine Ladies

More posts about undergarments for your chest: Flattening Sports Bras, Binding Qweary. Next we need a femmey femster bra roundup! Any takers? Drop me a line at oram.sonia@gmail.com.

Quotes from the comments in this non-feminine bra qweary.

06

Jul

Flattening Sports Bras

Anonymous asked: Do you have any bra/sports bra recommendations? I find that sports bras that fit my (rather large) torso are not as tight as I’d like in the boob area, and normal bras, even t-shirt bras irritate me because they’re like “here, world, let me present this stuff to you!” Do you know of any bras that just hold things in place inconspicuously?

Under Armour Endure Sports Bra: Darla writes,”I am a lesbian with a HUGE bust and a very petite build, I have always had trouble hiding my bust to achieve a slightly more ‘butch’ look. I have found these sports bras made by under armor that work quite well. My real bra size is a 30DD (odd right?) but I buy the small C’s and they work quite well.I know a little on the pricey side but its a good investment and a good way to bind without injury.

Title Nine: I’ve heard several good reviews about Title Nine, but they discontinued the frog bra, which a lot of trans men loved. Autostraddle recommends their Booby Trap Sports Bra. Has anyone tried anything else from there?

I wear City Sports Under Armour Active Bras, but they don’t flatten me as much as I’d like.

Autostraddle has a huge list, but as it’s for everyone and not just boob-hiders, not all their notes mention the compression involved. They also recommend that you measure your boobs, but that’s the last thing I’d recommend for people with chest dysphoria. No need to put yourself through that sort of trauma; trying on sports bras will do just fine to figure out your size. Here’s what I found helpful (also prolled through the comments):

Champion Powersleek Sports Bra: Has a clasp so you can get a smaller size without having to pull it over your head.

Fila Sport Seamless Performance Sports Bra: Is seamless and will provide a smooth look under your shirt.

Freya: Lots of people say the love it, but none mention compression. Has anyone tried them?

Other tips:
Try getting a size too small.
Some people have recommended wearing two, others say that it’s not the best idea. Li commented on Autodtraddle’s post: “Two sports bras is not effective for reducing bounce and side-to-side motion (which a good sports bra will do), and it also makes it more difficult to breathe because your chest is constricted.” 

Let’s crack the code on the best sports bras to flatten! Please comment!

Also check this out for information on safe binding.

16

Jun

Anonymous asked: Hey, do you know what Ashley uses/wears as a binder or bra? Her tanktop-looks always seem to cover them really well. I'm about her build and hoping to create a similar look, and I was wondering if you (or she) had any suggestions. Thanks!

I love her tank top look too. Ashley is pretty lucky in that department, so she doesn’t have to bind. Pretty sure she just wears sports bras. She also wears white tanks (like Fruit Of The Loom) under her tank tops. That can also help flatten you out more.

Related Posts: Swag.Ashley’s Primary Colors

10

Mar

Anonymous asked: I really hate really Feminine looking bras but at the same time i hate the limited number of colors that sports bras have. Are there any places you would recommend for bras?

Interesting Dilemma. Companies assume that women are wearing sports bras for function, not because they want to celebrate wearing less feminine clothes. I prefer City Sports Under Armour Active Bras but they only come in white, black, and gray. It sounds like you like your chest but don’t want to go all out femme in the lacy bra department.

What bras do you guys wear?

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