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19

Apr

10 Queer Fashion Related Things to Make You Smile

I’m on lockdown right now due to some marathon bomber being armed and on the loose. I’ve been inspired by Buzzfeed’s happy lists. So I thought I’d make my own, equipped with news about the Clintons!

1. This dude has a tie and a bling necklace on AT THE SAME TIME
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(from: www.dapperq.com)


2. Just look AT THAT FACE!
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(from: leeoliveira.com)


3. Shopbop has a “Crepe Femme Dress.” Let’s just pretend they intended it for the queers.
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4. Smiling yet? This hair:
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(from: loveisthelawmag.com)

5. Okay, how about the most adorable tomboy-femme couple everrr??
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(from: fitforafemme.com)


6. Adorable person I do not know:
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Anyone know who this is or where this picture comes from? Cause I don’t!

7. dapperQ has a mysterious commentator under the name “Hillary Cli*ton,” who references Hillary’s exact whereabouts in her comments. 
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(From here)


8. We take fashion very seriously:
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(from: dailypictur.es)

9. Let’s not forget what The Handsome Butch and Bill Clinton have in common!
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(from: thehandsomebutch.tumblr.com)


10. Ellen and Portia get hotter and more fashionable by the minute:
image(from: http://nattyv.tumblr.com)

Hang in there, Boston! Got anything to add? Comment! 

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11

Apr

Indochino’s Traveling Tailor is Ready for the Queers!

Indochino Traveling Tailor Boston

I was blown away by Indochino’s beautiful Traveling Tailor shop in Boston that I visited with Fit For a Femme last week. It was like the Apple store of suits. Priced in the $400 range, they offer the softest fabrics and choices of lapel style, number of buttons, pocket style (note: pocket flaps can always be tucked in. May as well get them and have the option!), linings, rounded vests, and contrast button stitching, to name a few!

Here are some photos from their shop, all courtesy of Fit For a Femme! The femme’s wife M got fitted for a suit as well, so stay tuned for part 2 of the Indochino experience on FFAF’s blog

Indochino Traveling Tailor Boston

Indochino Traveling Tailor Boston

Indochino Traveling Tailor Boston

Indochino Traveling Tailor Boston

Indochino Traveling Tailor Boston

Indochino Traveling Tailor Boston

Indochino Traveling Tailor Boston

Indochino Traveling Tailor Boston

The traveling tailor is in Boston until April 15th as part of their North America tour. Since I love Indochino and I want to make sure you all feel comfortable going to them, I gave them a heads up that some of you might visit one of their traveling tailor stores. All you have to do is tell them you are from Qwear, and they will ask you for your pronouns and preferred language for the fitting. They are are super excited to have you there. Don’t live in Boston? They might visit your city soon. Follow them on Facebook and Twitter for updates.

If you are able to make it, let us know how it goes! 

- Sonia

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17

Dec

Collars Inside or Outside of Sweaters: Let’s Discuss

My friend Elizabeth posed the “collar inside or outside of the sweater” question here recently, and since then I’ve found the variety of opinions on the subject quite astonishing. Some people think you should ALWAYS tuck your collar in. Others think you’d be dumb to hide it. I certainly love wearing it out when I’m in one of my brightly colored polos. Otherwise, I usually prefer to tuck it in these days; though I still dig the untucked look on the younger me. (This feels like sooo long ago!)

Here are more thoughts from A.D.Fit For a FemmeThe Tie Guy, and Anthony from Closet Freaks.

collar and sweater
INSIDE (from trashness.com)

A.D. says it’s all about the size and shape of the collar: “If the shirt has a relatively small collar, the neck is fitted, and the size of the sweater is fitted, then wearing it out is totally fine. If you’re wearing a button-down collar, wearing it in is necessarily required.” 

Well, I guess this guy failed:

collar outside of sweater
OUTSIDE (This picture has been circulated so much and I can’t find the source. If it’s yours, tell me!)

Should you try it at home? If you think you can handle it. 

Fit For a Femme prefers the untucked look for both her tomboy and herself. She says, “I swear to God if I left my collar hidden under the neck of a sweater I’d feel as sheepish as if I’d tucked my silk blouse into my underpants.”

collar outside of sweater
OUTSIDE for the tomboy (from fitforafemme.com)

FFAF also reminded me of the wonderful world of detachable collars. She says, “The flamboyant layered collar has taken the femme, girly girl world by storm the past few seasons, and I truly believe the revolution began when Eleven Objects (awesome gals) started making detachable collars; really luxe, beautiful, kind of punk glam things you could and should wear with anything, which made collars of all kinds — detached or otherwise — super hip again. It shows no signs of going away anytime soon.”

I got M to sneak a pic of FFAF modeling a fabulous collar; this one the Blushing Pearl Peter Pan collar from JewelMint:

Detachable Collar
Detachable Collar

OUTSIDE for the femme. In case you were lusting after it, her sweater is from the Everlane Cashmere Collection.

On the other side of the spectrum, The Tie Guy is adamantly against untucked collars. He recently agreed with one of his readers that wearing the collar outside is dorky, said that you should “LEAVE IT IN!” and concluded “cheers to people who understand how to look good!” Of course, The Tie Guy was talking to an audience of primarily male identified people with a fairly straight-laced style aesthetic.

But what about this fashion model, Terron Wood, looking totally fly with the collar not only untucked, but popped out??

Collar outside of sweater
OUTSIDE (from forums.thefashionspot.com)

To The Tie Guy’s credit, if I caught someone else looking like this, I might think it was a result of them forgetting to look in the mirror before they left the house. But that’s all part of the fun when you break rules.

Collar inside of sweater
INSIDE

Anthony from Closet Freaks took a similar approach to A.D., saying, “I’m always a fan of top-button buttoned, collar tucked in. Sort of a geek chic approach. There are always exceptions though, and I guess it depends on your mood and the individual collar. A blue chambray with the collar half popped for casual look works. If it’s a spread collar, probably wear it out unless the neckline of the sweater is very high. For a dress shirt I’d say keep it in, keep it dressy.”

Collar inside of sweater
INSIDE. Anthony from Closet Freaks.

What do I think after hearing all this? For masculine aesthetics, tucking in the collar is considered more clean-cut and formal; and I will keep that in mind for future collar tucking-decisions, but not necessarily abide by it. For more traditionally feminine styles, collars are often meant as a decorative feature and are best worn outside. Finally, there are always exceptions to every rule. Especially if you’re wearing orange pants.

So! Which do YOU prefer?

- Sonia

30

Nov

All of the Queers. Literally.

Our second meet-up last night was nothing short of queertastic. The Middle East was like a packed can of dapper. Packed as in, I had to escort my friend to the coat shelf so she wouldn’t get trampled. And act as messenger between FFAF and wife who were two feet away from one another.

And oh… the outfits!! So many ties, suit vests, suspenders, sparkly things. We’re already thinking up amazing plans for the next one; so stay tuned, stay cute, and thanks for being you.


So much curly haired cuteness. I can’t even.


Karen on the left is the Phat Ally!


Suit vest? Yes please.


I love this.


My second night with these lovelies… yes! Also. Hellllooo in the background.


Rae on the left is one our fabulous consultant who knows shiz about overalls! 


I look a little crazy eyed. Must have been all the queers…  In the middle is Matt. You may remember him from this. Rhiannon on the left felt a sudden urge to chop off her hair after being there for 10 minutes.


Eyes open or closed, I love these folks. Missy is totally wearing the Coach Tour Dress Modcloth that I was drooling over for months.


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Had to take a photo of the outerwear before they left! And those hand sanitizer folks will be really pleased. Isn’t M’s hat fantastic?

29

Nov

Ice Cream, Bowties, and Babygays!!

Last night at J.P. Licks was the first of two Qwear meet-ups. We discussed the pronunciation of ASOS (Aye-Sauce??) Things we’d most like to pull of if we could, whether we’d prefer to be able to share our wardrobe with whomever we’re dating, and why glitter wrestling parties are just altogether a bad idea.

The party continues tonight at the Middle East, so I’ll see you there!!! (Minus babygays, which I’m super bummed about. Those two kids in the back were my favs.) Bring your glitter. 9pm, Central Square, Middle East Corner Restaurant. Cocktail inspired ensembles recommended! RSVP on Facebook, or to me at sonia@qwearfashion.com.

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I LOVE THESE KIDS

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I finally met my femme fashion Queero! Fit For a Femme

28

Nov

Comfortable Heels with Fit For a Femme

Anonymous asked: Hi Qwear, do you have any recommendations for comfortable femmey heels (especially the kind that can be worn to work)? I like how heels look but I usually find them uncomfortable if I walk around in them for too long.

Why not go to the expert, Fit For a Femme? She says:

Welcome to the fold! I am a firm believer in comfortable heels. The sight of an otherwise impeccably dressed woman hobbling around in her heels; or worse, traipsing around city streets barefoot, torture devices dangling from a manicured hand, is one of the saddest around. It’s equally important to feel at ease and proud of your appearance in the workplace so that you and your colleagues can focus on your brilliant skills and whatnot! I’ll share a few pairs from tried-and-true brands, but don’t miss my special tips at the end of the post. 

comfortable heels
VC Signature Prunella Taupe, $250 (plus an extra 30% off with code HOLIDAY) at Vince Camuto. I can’t imagine a more femme take on the nude staple, with that metal cap-toe and the dainty stud detailing. I nearly left the brand out, but I have a pair of nude snakeskin pumps from the VC line and they are a real pleasure to wear, even on treacherous little brick lanes in Boston. Check out their Signature Prima as well, and for some holiday glitz, the velvety Verona!

comfortable heels
Seychelles I’ll Have Another, $110 at Seychelles. I bought a pair of their insanely high platform sandals a year ago and haven’t looked back since. They’ve survived the beach, two weeks touring the UK, and endless shenanigans in SF on foot; and I never suffer for it. With plush leather linings, a thick heel, and that critical hidden .75” platform, these heels are literally built for comfort. In brown and fire engine red as well. 

comfortable heels
Franco Sarto Cicero, $69.99 at Piperlime and Lord & Taylor. I have these in a demure red suede, and they are surprisingly cushy. They’re very easy to wear, have a subtle pin-up vibe, and the suede is much richer looking in person, believe me. They come in a range of bold shades and patterns, and would be a tremendously femme way to punch up a work outfit!
 

comfortable heels

Adrienne Vittadini Polenta Bootie, $99.99 at Amazon. Just picture these with a sleek pencil skirt and silk pussybow blouse! The brand’s styles can definitely be hit or miss, but they also have a killer boot and patent leather penny loafer that are very on-trend. The leopard print calf-hair ankle boots I have by them are fantastic and wear well. Generally affordable and definitely worth the hunt. 
comfortable heels
J. Crew Collection Sasha Snakeskin Pump, $375 at J.Crew. I haven’t owned a pair myself but the brand is pretty widely reviewed as carrying a very comfortable, work-friendly line of pumps and heels. Plus, everything else they make is pretty outstanding, so I feel good about recommending them. Wait for a sale to save some of that hard-earned dough, though, because they are on the expensive side. 

OK, now for those tips: 

1. Test the shoe out, whether it’s in the store or on a clean surface in your home. Never assume the shoe will “break in” or get more comfortable with wear. If it doesn’t feel good right away, it will probably only get worse. I’ve had to put down many a beguiling shoe because they didn’t pass this initial test, but you’ll be glad of it. I know I am!

2. Leather linings are a great sign that you’re looking at a potentially comfy shoe. If you want to add even more cushion (and I always recommend doing whatever’s necessary to feel and look good!), buy insoles, like these ones, or even the cheaper drugstore 3-packs should do. The heel pads especially make all the difference in the world.

3. If you’re nervous to start out with a heel, try a wedge! They give you a lot more support and you still get that leg-lengthening effect and height that traditional heels provide. Zappos has over a hundred to choose from in tons of styles and at many price points. 

Hope that helps! 

- FFAF

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TONIGHT! (Wed, Nov 28) Ice Cream and fashion icebreakers with FFAF and myself (Sonia) at J.P. Licks in Jamaica Plain (659 Centre St) at 8 PM! RSVP on Facebook, or to meee at sonia@qwearfashion.com. Bow ties and/or comfortable heels recommended.

21

Nov

Next Week is Meet-up Timmmeee

For those in Boston, this is a chance to dress up and hang out with me and a bunch of queers. Come and brings all your ‘mos! If you don’t live in Boston… well. There’s always Amtrak (Cough A.D. cough).

Wed Nov 28th at 8pm
J.P. Licks in Jamaica Plain (659 Centre St)
We will be in the back booth
Ice cream + fashion ice breakers! Bow ties suggested.
RSVP on Facebook, or to Sonia at sonia@qwearfashion.com

Thurs Nov 29th at 9pm (21+)
Middle East Corner Restaurant (480 Mass AveCambridge)
Meet all the fashionistas over drinks. Cocktail inspired ensembles recommended!
RSVP on Facebook, or to Sonia at sonia@qwearfashion.com

And guess who will be joining us at both??

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(source: fitforafemme.com)

This lovely, also known as Fit For a Femme. You know, the one who blogs about all those amazing fashionable adventures of her and her boo and writes for Autostraddle. Yup.

Oh boyyy. See ya’ll sooon!

02

Nov

Cute and Colorful Sports Bras

Anonymous asked: I love my boobs, and they’re only a 36B, but I feel like in menswear they look HUGE! I’ve never had that problem before! I was thinking of switching to sports bras, but they tend not to be cute, and I like my bras to at least be pink or something (no frills, just pink haha). Maybe I’ll just get white sports bras and color on them?

I agree that cute sports bras are a good way to go if you want to not feel like you’re popping out of your menswear. A while ago we got some answers from readers about where they find cute sportsbras. Here’s what they said:

Forever 21
Forever 21 sports bra
Ribbed Metallic Sports Bra, available at Forever 21 for $10.80

forever 21 makes a wondefully comfy yet sporty yet dykey yet chill bra for $3.80 that comes in many many colors.  i hate that store, but love that bra!” - Queerlady

Target
Target sports bra
C9 by Champion® Womens Racer Back Cotton Bra, available at Target for $9.08
“Um: Target. Has uber-neon and occasionally oddly-pattered sports bras that are also (relatively cheap).” - Becky

“seriously.. the sports bras from target are really affordable.. and i’ve got one on now.. neon green makes me happy. ;)” - Candace

Champion
Champion sports bra
Champion Women’s Shape T-Back Sports Bra, available at Champion for $31.99

“The “Champion Women’s Shape T-Back Sports Bra” is good and comes in some nice colors - different shades of blue, purple, yellow, green, grey, pink, black and white. ” - Lezsquire

Jockey
Jockey sports bra
Medium Impact Wicking Seamless Bra, available at Jockey for $19.99

“Jockey has some reasonably priced and simple sports bras in like 20 colors.” - Masha


Aerie
Aerie sports bra

Aerie Fit Cross-Back Bra, available at Aerie for $29.95

Aerie has lots and lots of plainly shaped basic bras in really fun colors - heathered tomboy shades, some funky oranges and other bright Spring colors, etc.” - Fit for a Femme

Nike
Nike sports bra
Nike Elastica Sports Bra, available at Nike for $35. Recommended by Candace

LuLu Lemon
LuLu Lemon sports bra
Free To Be Bra, available at LuLu Lemon for $42. Recommended by Vas-y-mollo

Autostraddle also did a sports bra roundup  a while back, and some of their choices have fun colors: Bra-Buying Tips for Masculine Ladies

More posts about undergarments for your chest: Flattening Sports Bras, Binding Qweary. Next we need a femmey femster bra roundup! Any takers? Drop me a line at oram.sonia@gmail.com.

Quotes from the comments in this non-feminine bra qweary.

16

Sep

Qwearing Mini Skirts

Anonymous asked: Hi there, I have a couple of really girly mini skirts (some with ruffles, some with lace, some with floral patterns) and I would love any suggestions on qwearing them up a bit (I already only wear skirts with converse, lol). thanks!

I’m glad you asked about this, because I love mini skirts and I need more of them in my life. (Not on me, but on cute queers for sure.) I think the key to queering things is to be yourself, be confident, and penetrate other queers on the street with sexy knowing eye contact.

Anything with a vintage, homemade, or with a burlesque style will lend a hand to queerness. Effingdykes (Thanks!!!!) observed in her latest post that femmes these days are really into bandannas tied on the head, liquid black cat-eye liner, lip and monroe piercings, high waisted skirts, wedge heels, anything with leapond-print or polka dots, outfits that mix sweet and nasty, and undercuts. Obvi you don’t have to do any of these things to be femme or look queer, (nor do you have to identify as femme to wear a mini skirt.) But I think these styles are a great thing to check out when you’re exploring your queer identity, since they are awesome and badass and give a nodd towards queer history and culture. But in the end, totes be yourself. Even if that means carrying a Coach purse. (Ok guys, I’m sorry for making fun of Coach and saying it was only for straight people.)

Now you’re thinking vintage, burlesque… eye liner… oy. Much more to think about than your average tank from the Gap. But as always, we learn best from example. Let’s see what Fit for a Femme does, shall we?

Nothing says femme better than studded ankle boots and leather. (source: fitforafemme.com)

Let’s look at another gay icon, Kristen Stewart. (I mean, what?)

You can see a peek of the red converse, and with the 80’s sweater look and everything put together… any queer could totally rock this look. Oh, Kristen… (source: team-twilight.com)

I don’t know who this is, but I love their style:

It’s kindddda punk, (apparently inspired by Sonic Youth?) but totally a different interpretation of the whole mini skirt thing. Also with Converse…. and that hair… yum. (source: www.gastrochic.com)

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