Anyone wanna be my queer sugar boi? I mean, these are necessary staples! - Sonia

Captain Oscar O’Leary Belt, Kiel James Patrick for $88

Men’s Slim Fit Straight Colour Jeans, Uniqlo for $31.50 

Short-Sleeved Plaid Shirt, Ralph Lauren Boys, $40

Men’s Classic Boat Penny Loafer, Timberland, $80

Dot Print Bowtie, Gitman Vintage, Barneys for $85. I’d wear this every day.

ABC Polo shirt, $19.99 at French Connection

Boy’s Ludlow Sportcoat in Seersucker, $118 at J.Crew

Adidas Gazelle, $65 at Shoes.com

Anonymous asked: I’ve been wanting to incorporate blazers into my wardrobe, but I’m just not sure how to and I want to be able to on an everyday setting. Any tips? Thanks :)

I mean, we can always reread the article I wrote for Diva about blazers. They can pretty much go with anything; all kinds of T-shirts, polos, dresses, hoodies, blouses, jeans. Here is some blazered outfit inspiration:

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It can be really fun to put them over printed Tees like this and step up the outfit. (source: aliexpress.com)

A reader recently wrote in, “I have a lot of oxford and fancy pants-type shoes, but I am lacking in casual street shoes. I like vans and converse, but I want something that everyone else isn’t wearing.” It’s true. Some of us just like to separate ourselves from the crowd with our footwear. Here are some sneakers I really like that you don’t see every day.

ASOS retro sneakers, available at ASOS for $34.06 (Available in several color options)

Diesel A-head Casual Shoe, available at Revolve Clothing for $95

Gola Quicksand Canvas Sneakers, available at ASOS for $54

Twins For Peace Classic Canvas Sneakers, on sale at ASOS for $47.68

Ted Baker Horto Leather Sneakers, on sale at ASOS for $95.37

Holly Three Low Energie Sneakers, on sale at Energie for £41.00

Veja Mediterranee Ice Cinza, available at Farfetch for $82

Tretorn® Canvas T56 Sneakers, available at J. Crew for $68

Peu, available at Camper for $165

Cardigans have a classy yet cosy look that will make everyone just want to give you jobs and cuddle with you. You can wear them with workwear, dresses, or just jeans and a T-shirt. Here is my cardigan queerspiration for fall.

Reverse Angle Cardi, on sale at French Connection for $27.99

Argyle Cardigan, available at Gap for $29.95

Charter School Cardigan in Honey, available at Modcloth for $34.99

Knitted Contrast Trim Cardi, available at Topshop for $76

Denim Demon Cardigan with Shawl, on sale at ASOS for $96.93

Shrunken Texture Cardi, available at Reiss for $85

Dream Cardigan, available at J. Crew for $85

Shawl Collar Toggle Cardigan, on sale at Brooks Brothers for  $44.75


Closed Striped Cotton Knit Cardigan Sweater, on sale at luisaviaroma.com for $99

Knitted Stitch Panel Cardi, available at Topshop for $76

Anonymous asked: I adore ugly sweaters. I’m talking clashing colours, obnoxious, the whole shebang. They work extremely well for my androgyny, and wow, big bonus here. They are hideous, though, seriously, wow. Do you know any ways to make them not so bad looking?

Anonymous asked: I’m going out with my girlfriend to the local opera house to see an orchestra play. I’m guessing it’s a formal event, so how do I go about dressing for something formal, but not go all out? I’m quite feminine (and I have long straight brown hair) but can sometimes wear more androgynous clothes.

You’d want something conservative with classic, subtle colors. Maybe something like this:

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• Blazer: Zara
• Sweater: Primark
• Blouse: Koton
• Jeans: Zara
• Flats: Zara
• Bag: H&M