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01

May

Powerclashing @ The Dalloway Pics!

We had some Ahmazing outfits on Sunday at our Power Clashing Party at The Dalloway. Have I mentioned that I fucking love queers and watching them get dressed up?

Qwear Stickers
Qwear looks gooood on stickers. 

Sonia and roomie
Roomie came all the way out to hang with me. Heyo!!

queer power clashing

queer power clashing

Lexi Ritsch and Sonia Oram
Guess who! Lexi Ritsch! Such a sweetie and great party co-host

Genderqueer Fashionista

NC (Genderqueer Fashionista) and N! Internet friends in real life: WHATUP!! 

Bass Floral Shoes
Only took a pic of this queer’s Bass Floral shoes. Which I need.

queer power clashing
Me and GQF!

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Don’t even know how this happened, but HQ be wearing my hat.

queer power clashing

gingham and stripesGingham and stipes. Yeah yeah! I love these Gap blazers

Thanks again to The Dalloway for hosting this event with me! Hope we can do another one sooon!

If you have any suggestions for meet-ups, either a city or activity, shoot me a message! - Sonia

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Other upcoming events:

Qwear Salon with Raimi &Lee Sunday May 5th in Somerville, MA!

Jack Tar happy hour/cocktail party! Tuesday May 21, 5-7pm. Sonny’s in Portland. Save the date! I know I am! (Portland, ME)

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27

Mar

Dapper Clashers

We’re gearing up for our big Power Clashing bash at The Dalloway on Sunday April 28th! Here are some of my inspirational favorites, and you can find more on my Power Clashing Pinterest board. I’m definitely going to make a few trips to my neighborhood thrift stores. Can’t wait to see what you all come up with! - Sonia

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(from: fashionising.com)

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(from: wallpaper.com)

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(from: firsthandsecondhand.wordpress.com)

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(from: notorious-mag.com)

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(from: brand-in-trend.ru/)

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(from: kpopstarz.com)

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(from fashitects.blogspot.co.uk)

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(from sartori.al/)

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(from: brokeandbespoke.tumblr.com)

THE DALLOWAY AND QWEAR PRESENT:
Powerclashing Party (21+)
525 Broome Street New York, 10013
Sunday, April 28 at 7:00 PM 
RSVP: clashing@thedallowaynyc.com
Facebook event

No Cover! Prizes will be awarded to the most fabulous clashers.

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10

Feb

Spring Wishlist

Anyone wanna be my queer sugar boi? I mean, these are necessary staples! - Soniaspring braided belt

Captain Oscar O’Leary Belt, Kiel James Patrick for $88

men's mustard jeans, Uniqlo

Men’s Slim Fit Straight Colour Jeans, Uniqlo for $31.50 

Ralph Lauren short-sleeve plaid shirt

Short-Sleeved Plaid Shirt, Ralph Lauren Boys, $40

Mens Classic Boat Penny Loafer

Men’s Classic Boat Penny Loafer, Timberland, $80

Dot Print Bowtie, Gitman Vintage

Dot Print Bowtie, Gitman Vintage, Barneys for $85I’d wear this every day.

coral polo shirt, French Connection

ABC Polo shirt, $19.99 at French Connection

seersucker blazer

Boy’s Ludlow Sportcoat in Seersucker, $118 at J.Crew

Adidas Gazelle blue and red

Adidas Gazelle, $65 at Shoes.com

09

Jan

Bass Loafers, Polo Ralph Lauren + Adorable Queer

lesbian plaid fashion

lesbian casual styles

Plaid shirt: Polo, bought at Macy’s
Jeans: American Eagle
Gray Sweater: Merona/Target, Thrifted
Loafers: Bass, Thrfited

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20

Dec

Pattern Mixing Guide with I Dream of Dapper

Floral and Paisley Lesbian Style
(photo credit: Boogie)

By Guest Blogger, I Dream Of Dapper

For some people it’s the sound of the coffee pot brewing that gets them out of bed in the morning, but for me it’s the endless combinations of colors and patterns that wait for me. I lie in bed and compose my outfit in my head before my feet even hit the floor. It’s no secret that I love a good bow tie and vest pairing; you don’t name your blog over something you feel partial about.

Usually I’m feeling a bit sassy and playful, which for me means fun with colors and patterns. Mind you, I picture myself as Mark from Ugly Betty on these days. I usually start out by choosing my shirt, sweater, and vest/blazer combinations before adding neckwear. I really like using similar patterns that vary in size; but pairing different patterns can also be rewarding. Subtle patterns are great for jazzing things up without looking like a complete clown.

Here are some of my favorite pattern mixtures put together from my wardrobe:

Stripes and Plaid

Stripes and Plaid
I find the clean straight lines of a striped shirt accompanied with the complexity of
the plaid pleasing to the eye. Try and match colors with this combination to avoid a
clownish appearance. This button-up has very thin navy stripes, which pair well the navy bow tie.

Gingham and Paisley

Gingham and Paisley
Gingham and paisley are great together. The curves and shapes of the paisley add a level of fun to the clean lines of the gingham. When starting out, choose a paisley tie that contains the same colors of the gingham to help bring everything together.

Stripes and Polka-dots

Stripes and Polka-dots
Lines and polka dots are a crowd pleaser. Just keep the patterns small and subtle; otherwise you’ve crossed the line from dapper into clownville.

Gingham and Plaid

Gingham and Plaid
Gingham and plaid is a more complex and tricky combination. It risks appearing too busy. But when done with thin lines and subtle colors, it can be really dapper! It also helps with the busy factor to mix bigger patterns with smaller ones. Those who know me know that I like taking risks and being a bit more daring. Taking risks can result in big pay-offs and many compliments. 

Floral and Paisley

Floral and Paisley
One of my signature mixtures is floral & paisley. The features of these traditionally feminine patterns compliment each other and create a fun and playful look. I find that it works really well to mix dark shades with light ones.

Check back soon for more of my outfits IRL!

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02

Dec

Queer Power Clashing

As queers, we love the play between classic and modern, traditional gender roles, and new gender spaces. We’ll put multiple plaids in the same outfit, and find a use for our grandfather’s old paisley ties. I’ve slowly started moving into bolder wardrobe choices myself (perhaps putting orange and yellow together in the same outfit is some baby power clashing in the works?) and I’ve been super inspired to see other queers and fashionistas around town breaking every rule I ever heard about what goes together.

Thrift stores are the perfect place to pick up eclectic pieces for your wardrobe. It’s how I Dream of Dapper acquired her cat vestTopman is another great source for patterned pieces, particularly masculine floral. Just beware of anything with the word “Aztec” in the description. It’s not approved by the Aztecs. H&M has some amazing women’s patterned pants; my friend recently got a pair that she loves.

Some tips for successful power clashing:

1. Mix bigger patterns with smaller ones. 
2. Find a way to tie it all together. When mixing patterns, find a common color to repeat throughout the outfit.
3. THE SQUINT TEST: When you have your outfit on, squint and see if it looks like a mess or you can easily distinguish the different pieces. (A little trick I picked up in painting class.)

queer power clashing paisley
Allex Knight, from her recent DapperQ feature. The shirt pattern is so muted and pants so crazy bold that they balance one another out. The light blue nail polish is a really nice touch! (Photo cred: Shaina Chin)

queer power clashing plaid
The shirt includes the colors of both the tie and the jacket/vest combo to make a cohesive outfit. The use of thick wool ties is a great way to add some weight and grounding to a mixed patterned outfit. (source: thetieguy.tumblr.com)

queer power clashing Jenna Lyons
Jenna Lyons (J. Crew head, new member of the tribe) always has some crazy patterns and textures going on, but she ties it together with color coordinated footwear. (source: theoveranalyst.net)

queer power clashing paisley
This fashionista repeats the color scheme of black, gold, and white. Actually, if you look closely at her wrist, she’s repeating every single color in her shirt. Brilliant! (source: behautebothered.blogspot.com

queer power clashing black and white floral
This outfit passes the squint test, because if you REALLY simplify it, it’s a light top and dark pants, the commonality being black and white. (source: blog.stylesight.com)

queer power clashing Dapper Q
Dapper Q’s first fashion show is also full of brilliant power clashing. This outfit not only has 3 different patterns in it, but has a canadian tuxedo-esque jacket and pants combo. (Styled and photographed by Jahn Hall)

queer power clashing plaid
Here the commonality that pulls it all together is the tie, drawing on the red lines in the blazer and shirt and red designs in the paisley pocketsquare. And it’s all the same deap red, or very close to! Bravo. (source: thatmodernman.tumblr.com)

queer power clashing allex knight
More Allex Knight from DapperQ. Allex comments in the feature, “I love the clash of classic clothing, my body, and my body art that makes this suit wearing experience so gender queer.” (Photo cred: Shaina Chin.)

Inspired yet?

- Sonia

22

Oct

How To Wear Flannel Without Looking Like a Lumberjack

Anonymous asked: I like looking well kept and put together, but now that it’s starting to get cooler, I’m becoming inclined to forgo the effort and pile on the flannel. My question is, Is there a way to incorporate flannel in a way that won’t make you look like a honorary lumberjack?

I mean, is that a bad thing? I can’t tell if this is a queer or a 10 year old boy. Let’s pretend it’s a queer:

(source: thefancy.com. Also, this Woolrich Kids Collection is adorable.)

As long as you don’t tuck it in or wear suspenders over it, you are headed away from lumberjack land. Flannel is a very functional style, because it is comfy and keeps you warm. So if you pair it with things that are less functional and more fashion focused  like stylish boots or skinny jeans  it will balance out and make you supes cute. Personally, I don’t think anything that makes you more huggable could be a bad thing. Below are some flannel inspiration to get the wheels turning. 

MMMMM flannel. (Source: styleguru.com)

(source: miseredelamode.com)

(source: statement-avenue.tumblr.com)

(source: the-youthquake.com) P.S. Leg warmers for boys. I am sooo doing this.

(source: seatomeadow.wordpress.com)

(source: the-youthquake.com)

17

May

Anonymous asked: Is there a way to make a plaid shirt and plaid shorts work together? Or should I give up on double plaid?

A plaid shirt and plaid shorts combo would be impressive to pull off, but you could do it if the patterns had enough contrast. You might also consider adding a solid tie or something to calm it down. Here is an example of successfully mixing 3 types of plaids. They work together because they are all so different; we have tiny, large, and medium and colorful. Now I just feel like I’m playing Set.

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07

Mar

Queersicle in Suspenders

One of my old Oberlin Colleagues came up on my Facebook dashboard the other day, reminding me just how many well-dressed dykes there are in the world. Sasha’s rocking the hipster glasses and femme dyky look. Her T-shirt has a pretty feminine fit as well as her hair cut and dangly earrings. But the suspenders and personality in her T-shirt just scream queer. And I’m not even going to say anything about plaid, because we made that shit happen. Her outfits kinda remind me of Lindsie’s because of the whole femme with lesbian flair thing.

Oh and hey guess who has the same puffy vest in white?

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Glasses: zennioptical.com
T-Shirt: Urban Outfitters
Suspenders: H&M men’s

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Sunglasses:  Vintage store in Oberlin, OH
Hat: Marshalls maybes
Necklace:  Chain Plus, antique key
Flannel shirt: French street market
Puffy vest:  Hand-me-down, from American Eagle

Photo credit www.lindsayladd.com


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Gearing Up for Fall, Lindsie: Femme with Lesbian Flair

28

Feb

Helmets are Hott

I can’t resist posting a cute queer who can longboard. 

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